Obsessed body butter: your questions answered
How long does the scent last?
On most skin, 12+ hours. It lasts longest on damp skin right after a shower. Skin differs between people, so your result can be shorter or longer.
Is it greasy, and will it stain my clothes?
It absorbs in about a minute and leaves no shine. A small amount goes a long way. Rub it in and give it that minute before you get dressed.
Can I layer it with perfume?
Yes. Put the butter on damp skin after your shower, then use your perfume on top. If you are unsure, pick a butter close to the perfume you already wear.
Which scent should I pick?
Pick by notes and occasion. Sea Sage is fresh and clean. Paris Blush is bright rose and citrus for everyday. Velvet Lavender is a soft floral. Roman Vanilla is warm vanilla with a bright top. Crimson Amber and Dark Tuberose are the deepest, and in our view they are the louder two. The scent quiz will narrow it down, and the comparison page shows all six side by side.
How much should I use?
One scoop on damp skin after a shower is plenty. Put it on your neck, collarbone, chest and wrists. You can add more, but you cannot take it off.
How big is the jar?
Each jar is 6 oz (170 g). The Discovery Set is six 1 oz sample jars, one of each scent, for $19, and the box includes a $15 credit code toward a full jar.
Will it melt in shipping?
It might go soft. Butter softens in heat, so a jar can soften in a hot delivery van. If it arrives soft, put it in the fridge and it firms back up.
What is in it?
The base is shea butter and cocoa butter, scented with fragrance. obsessed is pheromone-infused: the formula contains a pheromone ingredient. The full ingredient list is coming soon, so we are not naming the compound. It is paraben-free and sulfate-free.
Why does my order come wrapped in a coffee sack?
Every order ships wrapped in a piece of a real coffee sack, cut by hand and tied with twine. The sacks carried coffee from growing regions all over the world, no two are alike, and a card inside tells you where yours came from. It is reused, not new, and it is yours to keep. None of the six scents smells of coffee.
Is it safe for sensitive skin?
Do a patch test first. Put a small amount on your inner arm and wait to see how your skin reacts. obsessed is a fragrance product that also moisturizes. It is not medical skincare. If your skin is dry or sensitive, use fragrance-free products on it and see a doctor or dermatologist if irritation lasts. If you have a skin condition, ask your doctor.
Where do you ship from, and is shipping free?
Orders ship from the US in 1 to 2 business days, with tracking. Shipping is free in the US on orders over $50, which a 3-jar order at $58.08 clears. You can follow your order on the track your order page.
What is the returns and swap policy?
You have a 30-day money-back guarantee and a free scent swap within 14 days. To claim either one, reply to your order email and we will sort it out. The full details are on the guarantee page.
Is there a subscription?
Subscription is optional and off unless you choose it.
How do I reach you?
Reply to your order email, or use the contact page.


